Rules of dating for women
"I'm not going to be worried about what she does when I'm not around. They let their ego and insecurities come into play." Obviously, that means he gets to do whatever, too.In fact, the problem comes more from when her friends call her when they see Pitbull out with other girls.You picked the hottest girl at your high school (or at least the hottest one you could get), married her, and enjoyed your small-town life.Jake Scott*, 26, an investment banker originally from Virginia Beach, started getting into trouble the moment he moved to New York City.Neither wanted to end it, but both agreed their desire to experiment with others wasn't something they were ready to abandon just yet."It was painful," says Karen*, "but the fact that we could be so honest with each other, I think, made our love stronger." Full disclosure allowed them to clear the quiet tension that had been building between them.He knew his girlfriend, Elizabeth*, wasn't faithful, but he came to terms with it—or so he thought—because she always brought home girls for him. I never had a relationship like that, but then it started to get to me," he says. I didn't like that she wanted to share me." Although they still hook up every now and then (extra girl included), Philip and Elizabeth are no longer together.
"It's funny, but I don't cheat as much as I used to," says Jake, "and I look at things differently.Their openness isn't a license to bed everything in sight—respect and discretion rule. D., professor of psychology at the University of Washington and co-author of The Myth of Monogamy."Having an open relationship can work really well for some people," he says.Before, I'd often wonder if I'd be happier with one of these other women.Now, I know they can't come close to what I already have." INDECENT PROPOSAL Kevin johnson* always knew he'd marry a "good girl." He wasn't looking for a virgin, but he wanted someone who'd only been with a couple of guys.
And then the other category is when it's just a person who likes to have sex with a lot of other individuals.